There are three basic ideas to keep in mind:
- You are far from the first person to flirt with her.
- Flirting with a woman is just as much about deciding if you want to sleep with her as it is talking yourself up.
- Hooking up is generally a good idea if you want each other and you’ve established enough mutual comfort and trust to be invested in conversation after sex.
So why should you actually want to sleep with someone?
I have my own answers: because it’s exciting to have to pitch myself to a cute girl who makes me giddy and nervous, to gain her trust and do so by offering mine. It’s fun to be goofy with someone I don’t know, get each other off, and see what happens when we’re both open and honest. To feel suspense and release at every point in the evening, from the…
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